What's Working and NOT: Take Back the Morning Run

So, this is a pretty serious topic, and one I'm realizing needs to be remembered more often in my memory. I'll start off with what's NOT working, not just for me but for ALL us women runners out there. 

Last night, I found out an employee of the company I do work for, was physically assaulted while on her early am run last Friday. While running, a guy came up from behind, struck her with a blunt object, and forced her down. She managed to break away, scale a neighbor's fence, call 911 on her cell, and lay there for police to arrive. She ended up with a fractured jaw, bruises/cuts, and a broken arm. She is okay and on the mend, but this is absolutely incredulous.

And it always hits deeper when you know the person, and I knew this woman as a super fit mama runner. And then I thought of all YOU bloggy runners out there doing your early morning runs. I felt the urge to sprint home and type 'be aware and be careful out there!'

The idea of always having to watch your back, and worry about this sort of thing is NOT working for me. I realize there are definitely things we can do to heighten our safety on our runs, but the bottom line is- Why do WE have to worry about this? It's not what I signed up for at all..

So a group of her co-workers decided they needed to find a way to support this runner and all morning runners, and not allow fear and anger to take over their streets, neighborhood and town. So they created a 'Take Back the Morning Run' where everyone was welcomed to come out this morning at ~5:30 am and run her route and Take Back The Morning Run. 


And before we all set off to run, the organizer acknowledged the pain and frustration of the assault, and how great it was to have all us out there for support. Then, she reminded us that most of the world is a GOOD place. From there she asked if we liked, we could give a blessing to the streets by thinking of the bottom of our shoes as spreading good, positive energy and light back into the streets and neighborhood. This framing definitely worked for me. It allowed me to acknowledge the pain that had occurred, and feel like I could be part of a positive solution.

And I think other positive solutions I can do is talk about it, write about it here, think of all the ways to remember to be safe out there: run with a group, take a self defense class, carry mace, carry your cell, run in VERY well lit roads (however, in her case she was running to meet a group, she had her cell, and was in a fairly lit neighborhood-a few street lights were out. ugh) So that's what I'm doing by sharing this story with all YOU runners: Be safe and be aware. And please SHARE any other tips, ideas, ways you know for protecting yourself on your runs. 

We all deserve to run baby.
 

Comments

Unknown said…
That's really scary, it's horrible that we live in a world where you aren't safe to go running in the morning or evening. The take back the morning run group is awesome though!
Rene' said…
It is so scary! I run with a cell phone, a friend and pepper spray, but we have had those mornings where you just get a creepy feeling. It stinks to feel that way.
This is scary! I love the idea of "take back the morning". I absolutely agree about being cautious. I never run in the dark unless I am with friends.
Wow! How awful! Thx for the reminder! My heart goes out to the momma runner. "Take Back the Morning Run" is a wonderful idea! This should be an event that is held in every city/town/etc. THX again!
Miranda said…
How horrible! I live in a very small town where these type of things rarely happen, but i am still always super careful in the dark, because there is always a first time. I think the 'Take Back the Morning Run' was such a great idea.
ShutUpandRun said…
That is really scary stuff and unfortunately it does happen. I love your take back the run idea, b/c that way you are not backing down, but taking action and sending a message. I would hate for people to stop doing what they love, you have to make every effort to be safe, as your friend did.
That is such a scary story. Im glad you guys did something positive with it.
VegetariRun said…
This is terrifying... I mean, I usually think that it's safer to run in the early morning. I guess I have in my head this idea that the "creepy" people are out at night/evening and not in the wee hours of the morning. Early runs are when I feel safest.

Also I never take my phone with me because it's so big... I'm going to start to now, at least for over the winter. It's terrible this happened to someone, and so kind of you all to support her by doing your take back the morning run. I hope she is recovering well and thank you for sharing her story. It's one that will stick with me.
misszippy said…
Wow, awful! I'll be thinking about your friend.

You're right--sometimes it really gets to me as a woman that we have to be so on edge. It shouldn't be that way; but it is. Thanks for the reminder.
Amy said…
Wow, that's scary! I think it's great that you went out for a group run on her route, and I love the idea of spreading positive energy with your footsteps. It's horrible that we have to worry, but better to remember and go out prepared - something I'm not so good at doing.
Aimee said…
That is so scary! I am sooo glad that she is alright.
When I started doing my longer runs, I started carrying a mini pepper spray with me. It straps right onto my Nathan waistband and is easily accessible. Hopefully, I'll never need to use it, but at least it's something if I were ever to be assaulted.
I think the idea of the "Take Back the Morning Run" was awesome!
Anonymous said…
Absolutely awful and terrifying. But I absolutely love the positive run to take back the morning run... amazing.
Ewa said…
I am a morning runner in what, I think, is a safe neighborhood but bad things can happen in nice, safe areas too. They can happen any time of day and night.
Yes, I carry a cell phone but I also realize that when assaulted, I won't get much of a chance to make calls. But I refuse to live in fear so I keep on running trying to be aware of my surroundings all the time.
I am so glad this lady got away. One thing I keep hearing from people who deal with assaults is that one has to fight, scream, kick, bite, scratch, do whatever it takes to defend oneself.
Wish all safe running.
Unknown said…
This is so disturbing. I wish that we didn't have to run with fear and that's why TBTMR idea is so great! I get a little lazy and carefree sometimes when I'm running and I DO need to remember to be smart, more careful and cautious when I'm out there on my own. Thanks for the reminder, especially since it's darker earlier in the evening. Hugs for this!
XLMIC said…
I also love the Take Back the Morning Run idea. It really does stink that women are often held hostage by virtue of the fact that they (we) are women. I remember becoming enraged at a Philadelphia police officer after reporting a situation that involved running at twilight. The officer had told me there was nothing they could do and that I should just know better. Ugh. I am so glad the woman got away! I hope she turns out alright and is able to continue to enjoy running. And thanks for the safety reminder!
that's so scary! It makes me mad that people are sick and out to do harm to others...
The idea of taking back the run is such a great idea!! So awesome! I hope your friend has a speedy recovery!
*Tears* They say more than words.

Your post is perfectly timed, as lately I've thought about similiar stuff on trails on which I'm blessed to run.

The park staff (it's a state park) knows me and my car, and the state police and I always wave. I know 95% of the dogs and their owners, yet the other day I was a bit wary of new faces. Something didn't sit right with one person.

Precautions kicked into place in my head.

The framing context- with the shoes- awesome! :-) I do a similiar that changed a few years back... with offering thanks for Earth and the trails.

Really, how fortunate are we to have amazing places to run and supportive friends...

and places like this blog to be a part of something bigger.

Happy Trails of Peace.
sarah said…
That is terrifying. I am an early-morning runner, and have to go out on a prayer that nothing crappy happens along the way. I too HATE that I have to live in semi-fear as a woman. Ugh. When I run in the early morning (or really, almost always), I'm always looking around me and stay away from nice, quiet, no-traffic areas. I'd rather dodge cars than crazy assailants.
Christi said…
Wow, that absolutely sucks! I wish your friend the best and I love the idea of "take back your morning run."

I hope everyone remains safe and aware!
Quinton J said…
What an incredible initiative. And the turnout speaks volumes. It's so sad that this even needed to be done...but great that the community has gotten involved the way they have.
Unknown said…
When I run in the dark I ALWAYS take on of my dogs! They make me feel safe and are great company. Plus they have great stamina and keep me running! Much love and a speedy recovery to your friend!!
Caratunk Girl said…
SO scary, I am so glad that she got away, but how terrible. What is most scary to me is that the jerk who did that is still out there.

Thank you again for your concern (about me running in the dark of morning like this runner). I really do appreciate it. I do carry mace, we don't have cell service, and I have no one to run with (my dog isn't a runner either)- BUT I do stay aware and where I live, I truly am more likely to be attacked by a moose than a person here. BUT It can happen to anyone anywhere I know, so thank you again for the reminder to stay safe!

I really like the visual of spreading positive energy through your shoes...
OMG I am so sorry about your friend but glad she is okay. I hate running outside alone for that reason. I really need to train my dog to run with me. I am sure nobody with mess with me if I am running with a Doberman ;)
Regina said…
That is terrible!!! And sadly, too common a story. This summer there were a few assaults on female runners (one, very serious). They were in the morning about 6 AM, which in summer is FULL daylight! I also might add that there are always plenty of runners about at that hour (this is NYC, there are always people everywhere all the time).

I do not run in the dark morning hours when it is dark; that is just me. I am lucky enough to have a schedule that allows me to run when I want; I choose daylight.

Thanks for sharing this with us and I hope your coworker is on the mend soon!
adena said…
Thank you so much for posting this. It's a serious topic but we all need this reminder. I hope your friend recovers quickly. I love that you all took a tragedy and turned it into something positive.
Heather said…
That's so sad that happened to her, I am glad that she is alright and hoping that she recovers soon.

"Take back the morning" was a wonderful idea!
Anonymous said…
This run was a great idea. Luckily I don't know of anyone who's had a similar problem in my neighbourhood, but I sure wouldn't want it to be me! Thanks for the reminder to focus on safety.
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