What's Working and NOT: Take Back the Morning Run
So, this is a pretty serious topic, and one I'm realizing needs to be remembered more often in my memory. I'll start off with what's NOT working, not just for me but for ALL us women runners out there.
Last night, I found out an employee of the company I do work for, was physically assaulted while on her early am run last Friday. While running, a guy came up from behind, struck her with a blunt object, and forced her down. She managed to break away, scale a neighbor's fence, call 911 on her cell, and lay there for police to arrive. She ended up with a fractured jaw, bruises/cuts, and a broken arm. She is okay and on the mend, but this is absolutely incredulous.
And it always hits deeper when you know the person, and I knew this woman as a super fit mama runner. And then I thought of all YOU bloggy runners out there doing your early morning runs. I felt the urge to sprint home and type 'be aware and be careful out there!'
The idea of always having to watch your back, and worry about this sort of thing is NOT working for me. I realize there are definitely things we can do to heighten our safety on our runs, but the bottom line is- Why do WE have to worry about this? It's not what I signed up for at all..
So a group of her co-workers decided they needed to find a way to support this runner and all morning runners, and not allow fear and anger to take over their streets, neighborhood and town. So they created a 'Take Back the Morning Run' where everyone was welcomed to come out this morning at ~5:30 am and run her route and Take Back The Morning Run.
And before we all set off to run, the organizer acknowledged the pain and frustration of the assault, and how great it was to have all us out there for support. Then, she reminded us that most of the world is a GOOD place. From there she asked if we liked, we could give a blessing to the streets by thinking of the bottom of our shoes as spreading good, positive energy and light back into the streets and neighborhood. This framing definitely worked for me. It allowed me to acknowledge the pain that had occurred, and feel like I could be part of a positive solution.
And I think other positive solutions I can do is talk about it, write about it here, think of all the ways to remember to be safe out there: run with a group, take a self defense class, carry mace, carry your cell, run in VERY well lit roads (however, in her case she was running to meet a group, she had her cell, and was in a fairly lit neighborhood-a few street lights were out. ugh) So that's what I'm doing by sharing this story with all YOU runners: Be safe and be aware. And please SHARE any other tips, ideas, ways you know for protecting yourself on your runs.
We all deserve to run baby.
Last night, I found out an employee of the company I do work for, was physically assaulted while on her early am run last Friday. While running, a guy came up from behind, struck her with a blunt object, and forced her down. She managed to break away, scale a neighbor's fence, call 911 on her cell, and lay there for police to arrive. She ended up with a fractured jaw, bruises/cuts, and a broken arm. She is okay and on the mend, but this is absolutely incredulous.
And it always hits deeper when you know the person, and I knew this woman as a super fit mama runner. And then I thought of all YOU bloggy runners out there doing your early morning runs. I felt the urge to sprint home and type 'be aware and be careful out there!'
The idea of always having to watch your back, and worry about this sort of thing is NOT working for me. I realize there are definitely things we can do to heighten our safety on our runs, but the bottom line is- Why do WE have to worry about this? It's not what I signed up for at all..
So a group of her co-workers decided they needed to find a way to support this runner and all morning runners, and not allow fear and anger to take over their streets, neighborhood and town. So they created a 'Take Back the Morning Run' where everyone was welcomed to come out this morning at ~5:30 am and run her route and Take Back The Morning Run.
And before we all set off to run, the organizer acknowledged the pain and frustration of the assault, and how great it was to have all us out there for support. Then, she reminded us that most of the world is a GOOD place. From there she asked if we liked, we could give a blessing to the streets by thinking of the bottom of our shoes as spreading good, positive energy and light back into the streets and neighborhood. This framing definitely worked for me. It allowed me to acknowledge the pain that had occurred, and feel like I could be part of a positive solution.
And I think other positive solutions I can do is talk about it, write about it here, think of all the ways to remember to be safe out there: run with a group, take a self defense class, carry mace, carry your cell, run in VERY well lit roads (however, in her case she was running to meet a group, she had her cell, and was in a fairly lit neighborhood-a few street lights were out. ugh) So that's what I'm doing by sharing this story with all YOU runners: Be safe and be aware. And please SHARE any other tips, ideas, ways you know for protecting yourself on your runs.
We all deserve to run baby.
Comments
Also I never take my phone with me because it's so big... I'm going to start to now, at least for over the winter. It's terrible this happened to someone, and so kind of you all to support her by doing your take back the morning run. I hope she is recovering well and thank you for sharing her story. It's one that will stick with me.
You're right--sometimes it really gets to me as a woman that we have to be so on edge. It shouldn't be that way; but it is. Thanks for the reminder.
When I started doing my longer runs, I started carrying a mini pepper spray with me. It straps right onto my Nathan waistband and is easily accessible. Hopefully, I'll never need to use it, but at least it's something if I were ever to be assaulted.
I think the idea of the "Take Back the Morning Run" was awesome!
Yes, I carry a cell phone but I also realize that when assaulted, I won't get much of a chance to make calls. But I refuse to live in fear so I keep on running trying to be aware of my surroundings all the time.
I am so glad this lady got away. One thing I keep hearing from people who deal with assaults is that one has to fight, scream, kick, bite, scratch, do whatever it takes to defend oneself.
Wish all safe running.
The idea of taking back the run is such a great idea!! So awesome! I hope your friend has a speedy recovery!
Your post is perfectly timed, as lately I've thought about similiar stuff on trails on which I'm blessed to run.
The park staff (it's a state park) knows me and my car, and the state police and I always wave. I know 95% of the dogs and their owners, yet the other day I was a bit wary of new faces. Something didn't sit right with one person.
Precautions kicked into place in my head.
The framing context- with the shoes- awesome! :-) I do a similiar that changed a few years back... with offering thanks for Earth and the trails.
Really, how fortunate are we to have amazing places to run and supportive friends...
and places like this blog to be a part of something bigger.
Happy Trails of Peace.
I hope everyone remains safe and aware!
Thank you again for your concern (about me running in the dark of morning like this runner). I really do appreciate it. I do carry mace, we don't have cell service, and I have no one to run with (my dog isn't a runner either)- BUT I do stay aware and where I live, I truly am more likely to be attacked by a moose than a person here. BUT It can happen to anyone anywhere I know, so thank you again for the reminder to stay safe!
I really like the visual of spreading positive energy through your shoes...
I do not run in the dark morning hours when it is dark; that is just me. I am lucky enough to have a schedule that allows me to run when I want; I choose daylight.
Thanks for sharing this with us and I hope your coworker is on the mend soon!
"Take back the morning" was a wonderful idea!
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